Without a doubt, the question that we are most often asked (other than, "So your wife fucks other guys?") is, how did you get started? Sometimes the question is phrased a little more directly and honestly, "How can I get my wife into this?" The short answer is that there is not a quick answer.

Everything is a process. For us, "playing" has been a very long process, starting with some fairly timid public flashing and learning what turned us both on. Bit by bit, as we became more comfortable with one another and more realistic about the things that turned us on we began to explore new activities. We still aren't full-blown "swingers" and we probably never will be, but we are still enjoying the process.

The links on the left represent the chronological process that we went through to get to where we are today. There are links to the same pages below, listed in a more random order. Our advice is that you read them in the order that you see them on the left. Understand that you are reading about events that took place over many years. As we have time, we will add more accounts here so check back often. LIke always anytime we add something new you will see it listed on our home page.

Everything written on these pages is recorded exactly as it happened. Usually the accounts were written within hours of the events in order to best capture the moment (and to ensure accuracy). We hope you enjoy reading about the path that we have taken to get to where we are today.