More and more couples are finding their way back into porn theaters, and more porn theater owners are recognizing that fact.  Couple-friendly theaters are popping up in a number of places across the US.  They are clean, comfortable, and well-maintained.  People go to porn theaters for all kinds of reasons.  Some go simply to watch a “dirty movie” in a group setting, others have more “interactive” intentions.

If you have never gone to an adult theater, you might find the idea both exciting, and terrifying.  In order to calm some nerves and to give you the information that you need to make good decisions, we present this basic guide for couples (and women) who are considering a visit to an adult theater.

Preparation

1. What do we want to do? Are you going just to watch the movie?  Are you going to watch the others in the audience?  Are you going to give a show?  Are you looking to play with others?  Answer these questions thoughtfully - and answer them TOGETHER.
2. How far will we go? You may go just to watch the movie, but she may be fascinated by the sight of a stranger jerking off a few feet away from her.  Guys, are you cool with that?  What if someone touches her?  Or speaks?  While your fantasies may be running wild, considering what “might be”, we recommend that you reign in those fantasies on the first couple of visits.  It might be fun to think about, but sometimes reality leaves us with a different response.  Remember, you always have time to push the limits in the future, but once you step across certain lines, you cannot undo your actions.
3. How far are we willing to go?  I know, this sounds a lot like number 2.  We are talking about an absolute limit here.  Sometimes, admittedly, the rush is in breaking some rules.  You may find that you get so carried away that you race right by the line you drew in step 2.  For example, let’s say Dick and Jane go to the theater with the intention of letting her flash her boobs and giving guys a peek up her miniskirt (no panties, of course).  They find a seat and start the show.  Minutes later, a guy takes a seat down the row.  She likes the way he looks and begins to direct more of her assets in his direction.  Now, this is as far as they planned on going.  What they didn’t count on was this guy.  He turns her on.  Who knows why, he just does.  So much so that she doesn’t object when he leans over and runs his hand down her thigh.  Oops, line crossed.  If Dick and Jane had decided, “we are going so she can flash.  But a little touching will be OK.” then there are no problems.  If they just flashed and no more, they would have missed the additional rush of “pushing it”.  
4. What if we want to stop? Couples who play bondage games practice a “safe word”.  It is a word or phrase that means, “Stop.  Stop right now.  Do not continue.”  Both partners respect that safe word as sacred.  In the world of Bondage and Discipline, a simple “no” does not work.  Sometimes, feigned resistance is a part of the game.  In other words, the partner being strapped down or spanked is SUPPOSED to say no.  So they have to find a way to say “no” and mean it!  When playing in public or with others, you need the same.  It may be something as simple as “I need a cigarette”.  Whether or not you smoke.  Or, “Acapulco”.  If a guy touching your wife isn’t as hot in person as it was in your fantasy, you can simply whisper, “reminds me of Acapulco” or “guess we don’t need to go to Acapulco after all.”  She can smile, thank the guy for his attention and the two of you can walk out to the lobby to plan your next move.

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