Q. You are married?  First time?  For how long?

Yep, this is our first and only marriage. We were teenagers in love and 3 decades later we are still married.

Q. Do you play in order to strengthen your marriage?

Absolutely not.  We play because we both like it.  Our marriage is already strong for a dozen other reasons.  This lifestyle will neither improve nor destroy your relationship, but it may very well bring to light both the strengths and weaknesses that are already there. 

Q. What about jealousy?

If it were an issue, we wouldn't be playing.  As we said, our relationship is already on a good footing.  However, jealousy can be held in check by remembering that we play with others, but we only love one another. 

Q.  Are you straight, bi, gay or what?

Alex is straight.  Lauren is bisexual.

Q.  Were you both sexually experienced when you met?

No.  Our backgrounds are both fairly conservative and our experience before marriage was very limited.  But we have enjoyed catching up with each other! 

Q.  How long have you been doing this?

That depends on how you define "this".  Flashing, teasing and public sex has been a part of our lives for many years.  Involving others only began a few years ago, primarily with Lauren.  Since she is an exhibitionist and Alex is a voyeur, it was a natural way for things to develop. 

Q.  Are you dominant, submissive or both?

Neither one of us could be defined completely by any of those terms, but Lauren does enjoy a bit of control.  For her, one of the biggest turn ons in teasing, flashing or having sex while others are watching is that she is in complete control of the situation.  They are allowed to watch only as long as she chooses to "perform".  Alex has been coming to recognize some dominant inclinations.  We will see how they play themselves out. 

Q. So what exactly are you into?

In broad terms, Lauren is a playful, bisexual exhibitionist. She loves to be seen, loves to make others feel good and loves to have fun.  In her words, "I like sex!"  Specifically, and in no particular order, she has a thing for women, black guys, and businessmen in suits and ties.  Yes, size does matter, but it isn't everything.  She gives a great massage and has an amazing tongue.

Alex, on the other hand, is a dirty-minded voyeur who loves to "play games" as he calls it. Not roleplay in the traditional sense ("OK, tonight you be the cheerleader and I will be the senator who has come back to watch his alma mater"), but situations in public or semipublic settings.  ("Let's go the bookstore separately, You tease the guys till they can't stand it, then we'll "accidentlally" meet and fuck right there while they all wonder why they didn't get chosen").  In no particular order he has a thing for two-headed blowjobs, women who are just beginning to admit how naughty they want to be and watching his wife with other girls.  He loves a great massage and can tell you dozens of things to do with your tongue!